I keep typing the sentence, “It feels like things are coming apart at the seams,” (because it really does), but sometimes I type “seems” instead, and I don’t even notice,  because that’s how it is right now.

Shani Boianjiu: How I Write

“The only way I know how to write is that I accidently get an idea in my head, and then I tell the story to myself in my head again and again, for the longest amount of time that I am possibly able to, until I cannot possibly keep it in my head anymore, or my head will metaphorically explode, and so I write it all down. I then wait for another idea to come that will tell me where to go from there.”

(More here)


Cherries are everywhere in Brooklyn right now. At the bodegas, you can buy them in little cellophane bags  or black styrofoam trays covered in plastic. I bought a pound today. There was a long time when I wouldn’t eat cherries at all, I thought they all tasted like the scary bright maraschino thing that came on top of sundaes, the ones that I would immediately remove and put on a napkin, which grew sticky and red.  The first time I ate a real cherry,  I was living in Ohio. I took one from a bag held by the person in the passenger seat of my car. I put the whole thing in my mouth, and when I found the pit,  threw it out the window while I drove and later,  I wondered  if where the pit landed a tree might grow.


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bell hooks <3 <3

“the reality was and is that privileged white women often experience a greater sense of solidarity with men of their same class than with poor white women or women of color.”

— bell hooks, “Dig Deep: Beyond Lean In,” The Feminist Wire

a feminist analysis of Legally Blonde


Elle Woods was hollering back before the movement. This is why i love this movie. It’s so progressive. Elle is a femme feminist who comes by it the hard way. She doesn’t change for the bookish people, the elitists, or for the feminists. She just does what she needs to do, and what she wants, even when at first it was chasing a boy. Then the movie drops the romance. IT DROPS THE ROMANCE. chick flicks don’t do that. Emmett asking her out is a footnote at the very end. And this whole time, she is classy, and lady like, and has pride in herself and her work. She’ll go to a costume party as a playboy bunny, but like hell will she sleep with her professor for an internship. Elle is my feminist role model


I remember listening to my DAD defend Legally Blonde. An uncle was saying “Oh look, it’s that stupid movie again.” as he flipped through the channels. My dad responded with “Oh yeah, that movie where the blonde girl with great grades works really hard to get into pre-law, studies hard and proves herself to her peers and bosses while maintaining her integrity and not sleeping with her boss? What a terrible message to send girls.”

Also, I love this movie because Reese Witherspoon.


And don’t forget that she has serious female friends and wins the case by way of her specialist knowledge of so-called “feminine things” that no one else takes seriously enough to even bother with.

The movie also passes the Bechdel test.


LET’S NOT FORGET that even though it starts with a situation where two girls are rivals for the same guy, they BOTH choose to ignore the social codes (and hollywood bylaws) that tell them they should be cat-fighting and trying to one-up each other, and instead they realize that they make good working partners and better friends and screw rivalry, AND ALSO HAVE EACH OTHER’S BACKS RE: WORKPLACE SEXUAL HARASSMENT. And that it portrays sororities as places where women can learn to work together and respect each other and help each other out, which sets the stage for the way Elle treats everyone she meets for the rest of the movie. OH AND IT HAS A FAT SIDE CHARACTER WHO OVERCOMES EMOTIONAL ABUSE, IS NEVER FAT-SHAMED OR USED AS THE BRUNT OF A FAT JOKE, AND LANDS THE HOTTEST MAN IN THE ENTIRE FILM. 


Also, Elle still stays true to herself in a professional setting. Even when it’s tough for her, she always keeps being her bubbly, peppy self. She doesn’t let what others say about her stop her from being a kickass lawyer that also is unafraid to express herself how she wants to.

(From here)

zadie smith

“Books are my version of “experiences.” I’m made of them.”

(More here)


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